Well, it turns out that she won't be putting "missed my first birthday" on my fault list but she may put "sent me a first birthday cake."
We are so thrilled to have updated pictures and ones on the day she turned 1!

When you are pregnant, the countdown to baby time can be counted in doctors appointments.
Happy birthday Nyah! I imagine you are sleeping right now... or at least you should be (it is the 13th in China... 12 hours ahead of here). Sometime today you should be receiving a package and, hopefully, a beautiful birthday cake. We look forward to celebrating your future birthdays with you instead of from a distance!
I knew when we went to get fingerprinted that I annoyed the USCIS door monitor though I still do not think it was my fault that a wind gust happened as I opened the door to walk inside and as a result, his papers sitting on his poorly positioned desk went flying everywhere. It is clear to me now that one of his job duties must be to bring the USCIS mail to the post office and that he is the revenge-seeker and not the mailperson I suspected yesterday. Our I-171h came today and was dated February 22nd (3 days after fingerprinting) but wasn't mailed until 13 days after that!
I placed an order today to have a birthday cake deliverd to JinPei on her birthday. Here is part of the email response I got from the wonderful woman in China who will make it happen: