Pass the Vegetables Please!

We are in the middle of our “paperchase” of what seems like thousands of documents and even though we were just doing a home study update this time, the agency we are using for our placement seems to require a zillion times more documents than we had to gather for Brynn’s (maybe I just have selective memory or it is just harder with 4 kids). So right now we are buried in piles of paperwork trying to figure out who gets what.

Next on our plate is that everyone in our house has to get a TB test, except for Brynn who thankfully meets the “excused if under four” criteria. What a relief that is because she has been poked and prodded more times in the past 18 months than she can stand trying to get her immunizations to date and to test her for illnesses and at her last doctor’s visit for a blood draw and shot I saw a reaction that truly scared me as four of us tried to restrain her. I am wondering if it is out of line to request anesthesia for her for future injections…maybe for her and me, but that is another story.

Back to the TB tests… so yesterday morning Doug and I made a plan to take the kids separately since Price and Evan are, as expected, not happy. I tried to explain to Evan that sometimes we need to get shots to make sure we stay healthy. Okay, I know that is a fib in this particular case but the option is for him to hold a grudge, and he will, against his innocent new sister. Evan came immediately back with, “Can’t I just eat a carrot?”

Our LOI had made it to the CCAA!

Our Letter of Intent arrived at the China Center for Adoption Affairs today. Wouldn't it be a great Christmas present if they mailed our PA back this week... okay, even next week??? One can dream I suppose!

Where we are...

Our LOI (letter of intent) was sent to China on the 19th so now we wait hopefully just a few weeks for Pre-Approval. It could be 2 months or more though... it is amazing how much more unpredictable adopting from China is now compared to just two years ago.

We are just waiting for Social Services to report that our background check came out okay and then our homestudy should be done and the rest of our dossier documents should be ready to go by mid-January so hopefully, if USCIS is speedy, the day we receive PA our dossier can head overseas.

We did get JinPei's finding ad. the other day. I'll post more on that on a later date when I can post pictures.

Kate

Meet JinPei!

Wow! What a quick turn of events! We petitioned for a child off of Harrah's newest list last week knowing that they take petitions from all interested families and then a committee selects the family. We figured it might work out but that it also might not.

Well tonight, at 5:04pm we received the phone call that we are Wan Jin Pei's family! She is a cutie! Wait until you see the hairstyle! Unfortunately, you really do have to wait a few weeks until we have Pre-approval from China but I promise to post within minutes of that happening!

She was born on March 13, 2007 and is at the Social Welfare Institute of Wanzai County in the Jiangxi province... the same province her sister Brynn is from. The paperwork states she is in the orphange but in her growth report it says "She could tell family members through her eyes and their voices" and from what I have read in the past 4 hours, many children from this orphanage are in foster care. Guess we will find out later. The paperwork also says she has 24 teeth which I don't think many 4 month olds (her age at the time) have!

We are excited. Now we need to tell the grandparents and her future siblings. At least the latter group has an idea this was a possibility after our homestudy visit last week!

Kate

What a welcoming crew...

Can we really adopt again if there is not a single different color of lightsaber available for purchase for our new child? I hate for the kid to feel left out. Sadly, this is only 1/2 of the lightsabers we own (not pictured: another green, another blue, and two red).

Yesterday the four families we listed as references for our home study agency received their questionairres in the mail. Three knew what it was... the one Doug was in charge of telling, his sister, was caught off guard! :)

The Header Explained

So when I redid my other blog I knew we were getting ready to start paperchasing again and I made the header for this blog knowing that it would need to change... obviously at some point a picture will go in the middle but we will put our newest child's name in the header as well. Mei Mei is "little sister" and the kid vote in our house is 4-0 for someone littler than each of them so that means younger than Brynn's 3 1/2. The vote is split 2-2 or 3-1 either way depending on the day for a boy or a girl and Doug and I have not ruled out a boy, but I think we are leaning towards another girl. Not because girls are easier (we have found the opposite) but because we would like for Brynn to have an Asian sister (and Brynn consistently votes for a girl when we ask). So putting everybody's "requests" together we are paperchasing for a girl from China born after May 2006 with a special need we feel we can handle. Just like this blog design... all subject to change! :)

And its off!

My friend Denise decided this morning to accept the referral of her daughter and I was so excited for her and that feeling pushed me to the mailbox. I resisted the urge to fetch the application back out and was relieved when I noticed the red flag was down. We have officially started the adoption process... well in our hearts and heads we probably already have but now the paperwork and fees begin!

Guess Doug needs to tell his sister since she is listed as a reference. The other three references are the people who are as equally as crazy as we are with their many kids OR who know we are crazy but love us anyway... I'll let them decided which category (of not both) they are in! :) Think we will hold off on telling others and just drop hints for a while still but I am betting my parents figure it out soon. My mom is well aware of my 1 1/2 year urge to expand our family even though I think she expects those urges to go away at some point!

For those of you who don't know me, I know you might be thinking, "Geez, if you are that unsure why are you doing this?" We know we want more children. We know this is the path we want to take. I have panicked at at least one point with each one of my children before they "arrived" thinking of the what ifs so this is typical me. The fact that I jumped full force without hesitation into adopting last time is very out of character for me... I am a don't rock the boat, play on the safe side kind of girl. Notice I am returning to China again instead of looking at another country... because it is familiar now. I am sure that I'll panic a few more times before this is a done deal. Trust me, it is all good!! :)

Kate